Can a mother forget her child after she puts him or her up for adoption?
08.06.2025 10:45
We shared birthdays and deaths together with another couple
one - I would not tell my dad I knew (my mom had passed away four years before
I was crying
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two - I would not look for my birth family until my dad was gone
the only problem was I never knew why
my dad died it was this couples wedding anniversary
I never suspected anything
personally I think my mom did regret giving me up and always wondered what happened to me
she burned to death
my dad died and once again my world came to a CRASHING FLIP
nothing could ruin the day except foe one thing
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I was closer to him in the last three months that he was still with us than I had ever been in the previous 34 years
I some what think her last thoughts as her final moments were reached shecwascthinkingbof me and of the son she had given up all those years before
however nothing came of it and four years later I finally succeeded in connecting with my birth family
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my file was been transferred from the archives to the computers to enter all the information about children and birth parents that wanted to reunite
banging my head agaists the wall was a very viable option
my youngest daughter was born on the mothers birthday
my had was spinning
the letter wasn’t from my mom but there was a letter from the matron from the home where I spent my first year after I was born saying that I was taking the teddy bear to my new home from my birth father
I found out my birth mothers name and the search was on
the one man I trusted and looked upto very brutally told me I was adopted
a very strange experience
but here is the clincher
this was not the first strange co incidence
one one fine day the sun was shining, the birds were chirping, it as a beautiful day
I found out that I had been adopted at age one and that I had two half brothers thirteen and fourteen years older than me
strange yes
I did nit know what to do with myself
I found out that my birth mom had died eleven years before but the rest of the family apart from my dads side had been waiting 25 years to connect with me
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the years past by quickly
however because my parents had been so good to me I resolved two things
to this day I regard this man as the scum of the earth for the way he had broken the news of my adoption
it was our wedding anniversary and her mom was dying of emphazima and doctor had said it was hours not weeks or months that she woukd go so we were stressing she would go on our wedding aniversary
She died the next day and her death led to me connecting with my birth family when the death notice for Anne’s mom appeared just above the only two death notices for my half brother
there were several others that sort of beggar belief
the next day I was fine again
It fell off the trolly and instead of it been put back on the trolly it was put on the shelf judt as my application to look for my parents csmecinn
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the shock was so great I had a complete breakdown
strange as it may seem the day before Anne’s mom died my wife had a dream about Anne’s mom coming to her with a letter asking for forgiveness spabdvthat my wife go look for the son she gave up for adoption all those years before
moulding my own thoughts into the story maybe
when did he die lthecsameceay thst Anne’s mom died
after thirty four years I found out that I was adopted
A slip up by my aunt and the world I knew came crashing down
I was depressed
the search for your origions had just opened up so even if I had known before hand I would not have been able to look
all even years in fact when my world was turned upside own TWICE
the whole day I was in a state
the shocker came when I found out that the same day my mom died was the same day I had been so distraught
I had kept my promise not to tell my dad I knew but now he was gone I could freely look
but it was the manner my mom died that gives me pause for thought
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my dad hated that teddy bear and we never knew why
I’m too scared to even contemplate if there is another connection there
he threw the teddy bear away the day I got married
I knew it might cost me finding my birth family but my parents happiness was ore than breaking my dads heart
sadly just got the bad news that my other half brother passed away last month
I talk from experience here
my father in law died on the mothers parents anniversary